Rinpoche gives a public talk in Freiburg on Nov 13 (part 1 – 3) on this topic, then adds to this on the following weekend Nov 14 / 15 at Kagyu Benchen Ling in Todtmoos-Au. He encourages the audience to ask many questions.
Some of the things he talks about are the connection of anger and hurt and our tendency to be irritable and touchy, also about the value of prayer and the recommendation to raise children with discipline.