Ringu Tulku Rinpoche
Teachings on Bodhicharyavatara
Chapter 8: Meditation
This teaching continues on with verse 13 to discuss what can happen when we become too attached to others, family or friends, and describes the wisdom in keeping a distance with love and kindness. People are fickle and can change their loyalties, meaning friendships suffer. If we are too attached and over-involved, this will bring sorrow and pain and the mind will be disturbed, we lose our meditative equilibrium. If you run away or try avoid people that will not work, because wherever you go, even in a community where people appear to have like-minds, there will be disputes and quarrels arising out of unrealistic expectations.
The best kind of relationship is like that of a honey bee with a flower, the bee takes only what it needs, the flower gives with no expectation and in turn is pollinated, no harm is done, it is uncomplicated by attachment, nothing is owed or expected.
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